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So you've just met a guy and you'd like to know him better.
After I had asked you out for the first time, was there any part of you that wanted to say no? When you have sexual fantasies, who do you usually think of? Can you name three qualities that attracted you when you met me/got to know me? Which is your favourite movie of all time and favourite scene in it? Till now, what is the moment that you regret the most? Or would you keep it to yourself and observe from afar?
If you had a lot of money, where would we go on vacation? How do you feel if I walk into the bathroom when you are in the middle of using the facilities? Is it okay for one partner in a couple to take a vacation alone? Which three parts of my body are your personal favourites and why? If you meet someone that you love, would you confess to him/her? What place would you like to visit that you haven't been to yet? Would you consider yourself a morning person or a night person and why?
Still, treating experienced users like hackers in the ways we recommend here will generally be the most effective way to get useful answers out of them, too.
The first thing to understand is that hackers actually like hard problems and good, thought-provoking questions about them. If you give us an interesting question to chew on we'll be grateful to you; good questions are a stimulus and a gift.